The bright powdery snow has coated the landscape with a magic that only appears in story books. The trees glisten with silver and the water bubbles and sparkles. The snow on the road crunches under foot. The fog starts to lift and the sun brilliantly peaks through illuminating the branches and brush. The trees standing tall, proud yet bare offer the perfect spot for a bald eagle to perch. They dot the tree line, sometime two, three or even ten in cluster on a tree. They come here to feed. Each year around the same time feeding on the spawning salmon. They call to each other with screeches only an Eagle can make, terrifying to a small animal yet very distinct. Wandering down river, they sit on branches preening their feathers and warming their backs in the sun before soaring above, looking for another meal or a branch to perch on. Their talons gripping the branch tight as they would a fish. Their beaks sharp and their eyes are piercing. The hunter within always ready, the power emanating from their eyes as they stare towards you. There is no fear shown and they fly not out fear but to show their mastery of the sky and display their skill for all to see.
We as a family have volunteered with Reach Out for years. Last year I took a break. I just couldn't do it but this year we were back at it. I even took the kids out of school in the afternoon to help out. Well, just Robin and Lona. One year, I brought my dad. He was amazed and it is amazing. This organization helps people, families have a Christmas when otherwise they wouldn't be able to. I like being able to think about someone else during a season that is so focused on us: what we want, what we look like, who is coming to see us. This is one of the things I can do to focus on others and their needs during the Christmas season. Another thing I do is look for the red bucket. At the beginning of December I make sure that I have $20 in ones. Then I try to shop just at the stores that allow the salvation army bucket to be outside their store. Each time I go in I stop to put in a $1. When I am out of ones, I get $20 more in ones. When Christmas is done, the red buckets are gone and I make sure that my ones all go into the buckets before they disappear. For me, these are an important part of the Christmas season and helps others, but in doing so helps me to look outside of myself.
One of the very first things we do for Christmas decorations is put up outside lights. I have to, well actually John has to do that for me. It is therapeutic for me. The twinkling soft white lights go on in the morning outside and then off when it gets light out, then on again as it gets dark. I love the sparkle and the twinkle. It makes the dark of the days less dark. My favorite is them peeking out of the snow but that rarely happens, yet this year it did, for a week and then a day and then it was done. But the lights did peek, and sparkle and twinkle and shine under the white blanket of snow.
It's funny how life changes. I had a photo that I was all set to use for our Christmas card this year. I had a plan to get them printed, stamped and sent by December 1st but then life happens and that plan went out the window in a big big way. We added to our family and that photo couldn't be used so we needed a new one. Thanksgiving came and went without a photo and so I had to wait. The snow came and left and came once more. Isaac arrived home in time for a photoshoot. Twenty minutes is all it took, that included leaving and returning home. Seven of us, with the dog, with hats, without hats, some flakes of snow, hair brushed or not. We accomplished a decent enough family photo for Christmas.

The baggy sweats hang off his legs. His head gear dangling from his hip. His fingers drum his chin as he sits in the stands waiting for his turn to wrestle. The wrestlers are called by weight class, and he makes his way to the tables to get his assignment. He's given a mat number and heads that way. Warming up by jumping and swinging his arms, he waits. The previous match is over and he pulls off his hoodie, and his sweat pants. He slips on the top of his singlet and snaps his head gear into place. Taking his place on the mat, he reaches down and grabs the green or red strap, velcroing it onto his leg. Standing up he shakes hands with his opponent and the referee signals for the match to start. It starts with circling, hands out in front, knees bent into a crouch as they each look for an opening to shoot in and grab the other's legs. Strength against strength. Yet it is more than that, it's mental and it's technique and it's experience. The matches last for three minutes at the most, then it's sitting in the stands, waiting and watching. Another round of matches and it happens again, and another round. Each time, more experience is gained, more time sizing up the opponent, more trying techniques out, more mental toughness built. A season for a sport that is physically and mentally challenging. A season that requires dedication. A season that is so personal. The wins, the losses can only be attributed to each individual wrestler. Did he work hard enough during practice? Is his head in the match? Has he won or lost before stepping on the match because of the mental aspect? So far in the season, he has had 10 matches. In those 10, he won 2 by pins, 2 by points, one by forfeit. He lost 2 by pins, and 3 by points. He's 50%. Three tournaments, and the lowest weight class: 106. He's wrestling kids that outweigh him by 12 pounds. He's learning. Each morning practice he goes to starts at 6:15 and then the afternoon practices end at 5. Snow days he still makes it to the optional practices. He's learning and he loves it.


With having Robin here, I really wanted to do some of the things that shout Christmas to me. Creating a Gingerbread village was one of them. I had wanted to go to the Ferry Terminal to the Gingerbread display but was a week too late. However our own village was very doable. In the past, I've done a bunch of different things from using graham crackers to premade kits to baking our own. The baking-our-own has had varying degree of success. Then I found a recipe that works smoothly and hints to go with it. This year, I used the wrong recipe - darn. Yet we still were able to make it work. One of the things I still did was to cut the pieces before cooking them and then using the templates cut them one more time immediately after cooking them. That is the key to fitting it together. We mixed the icing, had the candy out and started working piecing our houses together. Lona is definitely the master at piping the icing to make it look like icicles. Job went rogue like normal and built a castle. He baked his a little darker and pretty much slapped it together. Robin has his first go at frosting and building in his life. The first house was condemned after the roof collapsed from frosting weight and we conscripted other house materials to create the villa he built. Once the frosting hardened the candy went on and we added meringue trees and cookie snowmen for villagers. My plan for next year is to make the nativity scene from gingerbread, snowmen and meringue trees. I think powdered sugar floated in the air for a good week after this.
It used to be that we would decorate the Christmas tree as an advent activity. I would spend an hour or more with the calendar while planning Christmas advent activities. This year I've decided to have fun doing activities that I want to do not based upon an agenda but based upon the time I had and when I felt like it. I started rearranging furniture, not too much needed a new place, just one lamp and an end table. We pulled the tree out of the box to set up. No tree farm for us or even tromping through the woods for one. It sounds like a great idea but the real tree is a bust in our house. We introduced Robin to our 21 year old fake Christmas tree. I usually spend a good amount of time placing the lights on the tree, wrapping each branch, connecting the seven strings of lights together and I did it this year too. Then comes the ornaments. Robin really liked the one that glittered and sparkled and were fancy, like the White House ornaments. That gave me an idea to get one for him for Christmas, one that was shiny and sparkly and golden. One that represented his Christmas here. If I was to do it again, I would probably read from a book on the history of Christmas and how the Christmas tree came about. The book I really like for that, is called, Keeping Christ in Christmas. The first part of the book does a great job explaining how many of our traditions started. If we ever host again, it is something to keep in mind. Once the tree is up, the lights, ornaments and ribbon are done, then it is time for a tree photoshoot. One where the lights twinkle and the presents are wrapped and under the tree. I love wrapping presents in brown paper bags. We throw away the wrapping paper anyway and I still after all these years, love the look of "brown paper packages tied up with string".



















































