We sent Job to school to make more friends and it happened.  He has a circle of kids that he affectionately calls his "Geek Group".  It is a nice term not derogatory at all.  Many of them are part of the chess club at school.  They sit next to each other at lunch and play sprout ball (whatever that is) at recess.  The group isn't gender specific. There is a girl in the group.  They like the same things and are not part of the cool crowd.  I'm happy.  Job's happy. John's happy.