I've driving this van for 4 years now and a small scratch on the back bumper and broken taillight.  Then I let Job drive it to the movie one night and he comes home like this.  He came out of the theater and someone had backed into it and driven away.  I had just talked to someone the day before whose husband never freaks out if she has an accident.  The words out of his mouth are always "Is everyone ok?"  Cars and bumpers can be replace, the true value is in the person or people.  So when Job called from the theater saying that there was a dent in the van, instead of my natural response "What happened?", I responded with "Are you ok?"  It was such perfect timing for me.